Selfishness
When you focus on how someone’s treating you rather than how you should tirelessly strive to love them as God does, you focus on your viewpoint of that person rather than God’s loving point of view on them. Then you end up being hostile and sensitive to every little thing they do ‘against’ you and you easily tend to take offense because in the end, all you’re really focusing on-face it- was yourself. Jesus’ love for people is incomparably the greatest example of what your treatment of others should be.
#notetoself
Sensitivity and Overthinking
a solution for it? Stop dwelling on every little thing, learn to take a joke, or sometimes, just don’t take things too seriously. You’ll find you make yourself and those around you much happier.
#notetoself
For a clearer way of putting things together..
writing has done for me what speaking sometimes can’t: it lets me put together my thoughts with more ease and less confusion at the jumble of words.
Sometimes it’s better to convey my thoughts by simply writing it out rather than saying it out loud: sometimes it just doesn’t come out right, I lose my train of thought, and I forget what I say.
-Note to self-
On every anniversary, take a picture of you holding a picture from the year before.
CUUUTEEEEE!! @emryg we GOTTAA do this ;D
hahahaha will do!
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Is it worth it to say “I love you” even during bad times?
Yes, because I have to tell the truth. But maybe, just maybe, I’ll have to face the fact that not everyone will easily reciprocate the feeling right away. I just need to keep consistent with myself and not put standards on someone when it comes to loving them. Just keep loving, as unconditionally, like God does, as I can.
-Note to self-
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Usually don’t like things written that you could tell people yourself, but…
You already know anyways!
(To my babe)
It’s been a year, a week and a day since we’ve been talking…(March 21st) who’s counting?!?! pshhh whatever, I know I’m weird. But it’s so crazy how now we’ve been officially together three months (December 21st), and I just can’t even imagine what would’ve happened if I never decided to hug you (which you actually jokingly ignored) that one night and go home thinking of texting you “so where’s my hug?”
It’s also weird I remember exactly what I texted huh? Not to mention the date? O__o
Now, you’re one of the people I trust with everything, and I could never even begin to dream of someone as amazing and beautiful as you. Not even my expectation of the looks, attitudes, preferences and tendencies of a perfect woman could compare to everything thatYOU are.
You’re utterly perfect for me in every way, and I really do hope and pray God will keep us together for the rest of our lives.
Oh my goodness I’m cheesy! Thank God for bringing you into my life, and I will always love you, baby.
MAKE HIM FAMOUS.
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Dealing with their past. (A thought)
Cliche- ”Don’t dwell on it anymore.”
”Forget it.”
”Move on with your life.”
Elaboration of my opinion:Just trust him or her. No matter how frightening or unnerving the past is, believe that he or she has matured and is really not the same person anymore. Trust that he or she has truly outgrown those old personalities, habits, and shortcomings. Don’t make room for doubt, and trust them that they won’t create room for doubt.
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